2.15.2013

How Private Are You Feeling?

    
I was flipping through Pinterest a couple of weeks ago, looking for images of beautiful windows.
 Don't ask me why I was looking at pictures of windows because I have no idea, but I was.

Everything you could possibly want an image of is on Pinterest. I have developed a small addiction actually.

BTW, this new camera is amazing. Who knew I had reverse crows feet?

Back to my story. I'm flipping through the boards and I come across a private, personal family picture. Right there in the window section. In fact it's a picture that I would have paid money never to see again.
I hadn't posted it anywhere and no one in my family will own up to it did either.

That is a problem for me. Once something is out there, you can never pull it back.
Words fall into this category too. Hit "post" to a comment and it's there for everyone to read, asinine as it may be.

We all know big brother is watching. In fact it feels like Facebook has kicked sand in big brothers face and taken over the sandbox.

I used to be on Facebook. But even with all the privacy controls maxed out, people could tag my picture, see my friends of friends of friends and so on. Worse yet, some obscure relatives came out from under their rocks and claimed me as family! I don't think they were really part of my gene pool.

 Rather than struggle with it I just closed my account. Surprisingly I have not missed it one bit. I actually pick up the phone more frequently to see whats going on in peoples lives.

Of course in 5 years if I decide to reopen it...every single piece of my information will still be exactly where I left it.  Bizarre family and all.

Have you noticed that every application you come across, all over the net allows you to log on through Facebook?  Games, shopping sites, Twitter etc. The option is even available for writing a book review on Audible and Amazon.

Google knows every search I have every undertaken, (I had no intention of actually doing what I was looking up), every site I've ever been to and they also have all my emails.
I'm beginning to feel a tad exposed.

 


Considering the number of crazies out there/here it gives me a small shiver to think of the personal information available for public access.
I Googled my name and there I was. Name, address, age, family members names, business affiliations.

C R E E P Y


Just for chuckles and grins put your name and town into Google search to see what pops up!
Does this ever bother you? Who's searching for me?
I'm not sure I want to know. I'm just more paranoid private than most, I suppose.

Of course I was that insane mother who instructed her children to hold their breath and race past anyone in our path who was sneezing or coughing.

Does any of this bother you or should we just call the men in the white coats for me?

26 comments:

  1. I actually don't use Facebook very much. My blog posts go up there, but I don't populate it with private, personal information like some do. I think I'm with you on this. Personally, I absolutely do not sign into anything with my FB account, though almost everyone asks if we want to.
    Don't know why either. That TV show "Person of Interest" has made me realize how much we are accessed already.

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  2. Facebook - no thanks! There are more and more of us opting out or never opting in.

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  3. I am on Facebook but don't post on it.

    I like it because I can keep in touch with my cousins
    and family overseas and see photos of the new additions to
    their families.

    I also like the fact that my kids are my friends on FB
    so I can see what's happening there too!!!!!

    What is the new camera Jennifer? Are you pleased with it?

    Have a good weekend.

    x

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    1. The camera is a Canon EOS. Really fun.

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    2. Oh thanks. I will look it up.

      Hope you have a good week.

      x

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  4. I totally know what you mean! My kids are used to me and my "Big Brother" diatribes. My husband, an attorney by education, thinks the only reason I am upset with our loss of privacy is because I have something to hide. Ha! Did "1984" not upset anyone else? Hello? I do have a FB and do not post anything but my blog is linked. I do not have the app that allows people to know where I am activated either. I know they know anyway...... Oh well, if I ever write that book my privacy will be an "open book" anyhow....sigh...

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    1. Meaning I am right there with you. Data is mined for a reason. They say for advertising, etc. but I read today agreeing to most android apps one has to give consent for google to access everything on your phone including the camera. Does this not bother anyone? I just think one day it will be used for purposes we are not ready for.

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  6. i rarely use facebook for same reason. I know i am too open on my own blog and I think I have slipped up only once on a kid's name. I just try and avoid it. Some companies, however lovely are quite insidious! After I bought my sweater at Brora and discarded the other things that were in my cart, they kept "magically" showing up everywhere on every site I visited!!! Yikes! Big Brother is well and truly here! It doesn;t bother my kids one bit!

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    1. That's pretty scary about Brora "following you around"! How can you avoid buying them if they keep popping up?

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  7. As a rule, I don't post anything anywhere that I would be upset about if a family member or employer saw. But loss of privacy is disturbing, and I find myself using Facebook less and less. Thankfully, I haven't been burned by anything online yet, but I do wonder if it isn't just a matter of time.

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  8. If you have another eye like that, I'd say you have beautiful eyes! I don't use FB - I think it's a rather sinister intrusion. I can't believe the information people are willing to give away about themselves.

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    1. I also am amazed at what people will put out there! If you're a celebrity that's different, you want the exposure, but not me.

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  9. I am with you on this. I don't do FB or Twitter or Pinterest (much...I have an account and I do search for ideas at times). On Pinterest and my blog, I don't use my last name but I am sure both accounts could be traced to me some how, some way.

    Isn't there a way you can delete everything on the FB account? Like all photos and posts and un-friend everyone?

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    1. I do have a small, ok LARGE addiction to Pinterest. I'm on twitter, but don't know how to use it really and last week it got hijacked by someone who started tweeting about fat loss or some such thing. I don't know about FB but I should open or up and just try to delete everything.

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  10. I am seldom on Facebook. I stopped using it because I really just tired of reading all the stuff on it....TMI. Have a wonderful weekend.

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  11. I agree it is becoming a problem. I don't use face book for personal stuff but I have a fan page and I could not set it up without first having a personal page. Commercial users seem to manage but I couldn't. Now all my stuff has gone Into the cloud! I try and mix it up a bit and never put my real date of birth.

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    1. That was the issue. Had to have a personal page to have a fan page. How do they do it?

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  12. It does, I loathe that addresses etc are readily available on the internet now. And as WMM mentions the whole Google logarithms thingie that works out where you go and what you do online then use it to flog you stuff - it's all a bit creepy if you ask me.

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    1. Very creepy. Funny it doesn't bother young people. I guess they're used to no privacy.

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  13. WE ARE OF THE GENERATION WHO DOESNOT NEED FB!I TOO HAVE AN ACCOUNT BUT ONLY TO SEE PHOTOS OF MY GODCHILDREN IN SOUTH AFRICA.NEVER USE IT!IN FACT LAST NIGHT I TRIED TO LOG IN AND IT WOULDNOT ACCEPT MY PASSWORD!I FIND IT BORING AFTER AWHILE........IF PEOPLE WOULD CHAT WITH ONE ANOTHER AS MUCH AS THEY TYPE I THINK WE WOULD BE MUCH BETTER OFF!A NOTE MY SONS TOOK THEMSELVES OFF FB A COUPE OF YEARS AGO!THEY TOO REALIZED THAT WHAT GOES UP NEVER GOES AWAY!HAVE TO SAY I'M VERY PROUD OF THEM........THEY ARE 23 AND 25!

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  14. cool post!!
    Follow me on http://laviecestchic.blogspot.it
    xoxo

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  15. I do the best I can to be obscure and try not to think about it but it is C R E E P Y. Is that your eye? Very pretty!

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  16. It''s a tough issue because the practical me knows that if we want to benefit from modern technology that is the price we pay... I am cautious about privacy in some respects but I do fear that in this social media age the horse has well and truly bolted.. :)
    White coat ... no... just very clever and prudent... xv

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